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An easy group to network with, fantastic apps (thanks Lauren for asking about food allergies), and a list of attendees handed out at the door. Jodi makes etiquette fun (she’s quick with the wit) and engaging, not preachy or stuffy.
Description from the website yankeeiabc.org/?page_id=17
“Whether you are new to networking or an experienced pro who justneeds a refresher, come learn how to handle business situations fromconferences to cocktail parties with poise and confidence as Jodi R. R.Smith of Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting mannersmith.com shares her expertise.
“This is an interactive program designed to be both educational andentertaining. You will have the opportunity to practice what you learnduring the program. Jodi will cover the following topics:
- What to know before you go
- Nametags: Where they go and why
- Handshakes: Lessons from Goldilocks
- Introductions: What they say about you
- Body language: What you are really saying
- Conversation: Business versus social
- Connecting with clients and customers
- Building business relationships”
Highlights
Etiquette: Having confidence in yourself and making those around you comfortable
A little bit of polish can go a long way: Confidence, making others feel at ease helps when clients are deciding between too competent consultants.
Present the best you possible
Name tags: wear on your right side, the eye follows up your arm and avoids scanning
Handshakes
- It takes just 5-7 seconds to make good first impression: Visual imprint, body language, tone of voice
- 14 positive interactions to overcome negative impression
Snippet starter, use when introducing self
You can control what you’ll be talking about by preparing a snippet. You can build a connection between your name and something you want to talk about.
- Small piece of info about self that forces other person to ask a ?
- Always try to be in 1 on 1 when networking
- Get the other person to be in an active role rather than glaze over
5-8 minutes per convo at any stand-up event, always leave on a high, longer you talk the more likely you say something boring, leave them hanging and wanting more
Follow-up with any hot leads 2-3 biz days, warm leads 2-3 weeks
Unless they specifically say call me: don’t call
Write a note, not an email. Really short: was pleasure to meet you at the conf yesterday, enjoyed our convo about xx, would enjoy speaking more about.
Call 2 days after they received it; ask to meet for cup of coffee
Meeting them isn’t really networking, it’s all in the follow-up